Manners and perception on 10/28/2003 05:48 PM CST
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Manners is a tricky subject. I was raised by parents with a strong European influence. To me, when I greet a friend, I want to wrap my arms around them and give them a friendly kiss. Most Americans think that you are being rude if you do that.

There are a hundred other little things I could point out, but suffice it to say that what passes as manners in one culture may offend or startle someone in another culture, there really is no such thing as univeral good manners, just universal good will. Sometimes you have to accept things in the spirit in which they were given.


A ship's rat scurries into view.
The ship's rat tries to tend its wounds.
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Re: Manners and perception on 10/28/2003 07:35 PM CST
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>>Manners is a tricky subject. I was raised by parents with a strong European influence. To me, when I greet a friend, I want to wrap my arms around them and give them a friendly kiss. Most Americans think that you are being rude if you do that.

>>There are a hundred other little things I could point out, but suffice it to say that what passes as manners in one culture may offend or startle someone in another culture, there really is no such thing as univeral good manners, just universal good will. Sometimes you have to accept things in the spirit in which they were given.

I daresay, though, that it is almost never polite to nibble upon the arm of a stranger.

~player of Gulphphunger
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Re: Manners and perception on 10/28/2003 07:41 PM CST
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>I daresay, though, that it is almost never polite to nibble upon the arm of a stranger.

"almost" is the key word, friend.

*chews on your arm in greeting*

~King Mek


"Duh na na na na na na na BATMAN!"
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Re: Manners and perception on 10/29/2003 12:45 AM CST
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<<I daresay, though, that it is almost never polite to nibble upon the arm of a stranger.>>

nod specially them snakepeople, you're liable to get a mouth full of scale slime, chip a tooth, and not to mention the aftertaste lasts about a month. I ate a Skra once. Once.

Imp


"Sire the peasants are revolting"
"You said it, they stink!"
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Re: Manners and perception on 10/29/2003 02:17 AM CST
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Manners are overrated.


-Teeklin Tessenoak, Proud Ranger of Elanthia

It's only after we've lost everything, that we're free to do anything.
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Re: Manners and perception on 10/30/2003 07:40 AM CST
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>>>Manners are overrated.


-Teeklin Tessenoak, Proud Ranger of Elanthia

Isn't that about what you told the heir to the Therengian throne, Teek?

Drex
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Re: Manners and perception on 10/30/2003 10:54 AM CST
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More or less. nods

Prissy royalty needs a culture shock every once in a while.


-Teeklin Tessenoak, Proud Ranger of Elanthia

It's only after we've lost everything, that we're free to do anything.
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